by Betsy Roy
Many believers in Jesus have a desire to visit the “Holy Land” and many do, going on tours where they visit the Biblical sites. Some have the blessing of connecting with Jewish and Arab believers in the land, which is of paramount importance in my opinion. In order to understand the complexities of Israel it is imperative that we visit with the “living stones” and not just go to see the sites, the dead stones.
I have been to Israel many times over the last 20+ years and taken groups there. While visiting Biblical sites is very beautiful and opens up the Bible in new ways, my fondest memories are of the times of fellowship, prayer and praise with the family of God in Israel.
Of all the trips, whether a ministry trip or a tour, the most impacting one was in October 2025. Three other women came with me. Friends there took us to see some of the remains of what happened on October 7, 2023. Some of our remembrances were recorded which includes pictures. Watch video here>>
As I reflect on what we experienced, the memories hit me again at gut level and bring tears to my eyes. Sometimes I push away what I saw because it was very painful and disturbing. However, any pain I experienced is far less than those who lived October 7th and the aftermath. We also saw a very cleaned up version of the kibbutzim and the Nova Festival site. We did not see the blood and the guts and there was much of that!

Kibbutz Nir Oz is one mile from the Gaza border. The Nova Festival site is 3 miles from the Gaza border and near Kibbutz Re’im in the Western Negev Desert of Israel.
Kibbutz Nir Oz lost over 100 of its 400 residents to murder or being taken hostage, including the Bibas family (father Yarden, mother Shiri and sons Ariel and Kfir). Only Yarden survived captivity as a hostage. Shiri, Ariel and Kfir were taken as hostages and were brutally murdered in captivity. When Hamas initially returned a coffin that was supposed to be Shiri in 2025, it was actually the corpse of a Palestinian woman! Despicable. Imagine the horror of that and Yarden not knowing until after his release in 2025 whether or not his family was alive and in what state.

We walked through the Bibas’ family home as well as others. We had a small taste of the horror. One home is pictured here where the entire family was massacred.
I could tell you stories of other not so well known victims. This community had many peace activists who made friends with Palestinians, gave them jobs on the kibbutz and took the sick to Israeli hospitals. They drank coffee together in their kitchens. They knew were the safe rooms where and even if the family had a dog. Some of the Palestinians that had access to Nir Oz gave intel to Hamas and even participated in the atrocities. That is betrayal of the worst kind! This is only one of the kibbutzim struck! Remember, about 250 hostages were taken into Gaza and 1,200 people were murdered on October 7, 2025. The vast majority were Israelis.
The physical devastation I saw was overwhelming. But more so the emotional and psychological devastation to the victims, their families and the people of Israel. As I continue to have contact with friends in Israel it is very evident that the trauma is not over. Subsequent missile barrages from Iran and the heightened global antisemitism have left a deep wound in both children and adults. Imagine giving birth to your baby in a hospital bomb shelter while ballistic missiles are incoming from Iran? I know a young woman who did. Watch D’vora’s testimony here>>
For us, it may be easy to forget what happened three years ago. For those who lived it and the nation of Israel it is not. I ask you to fight antisemitism and to pray. While it may appear quiet at the moment, it is not. There is ongoing terrorism, especially in Judea and Samaria (falsely named the “West Bank”). Islamic jihadists continue to try to infiltrate and Palestinian terror groups have openly admitted they want to commit another October 7th and even worse. “From the river to the sea, Palestine will be free” means every Jewish person is to die and the nation of Israel is to be no more. That is a call to genocide. The Palestinians will not be satisfied with a “two-state solution”. They have refused the opportunity numerous times because it is to their advantage to play the victim and spur on Jew hatred. Israel is under constant pressure and on alert. Soldiers and citizens are tired and emotionally worn out. Yet, there is a resilient spirit within them and thankfully a greater openness to hear about God. Won’t you pray with me for the people of Israel to be strengthened, encouraged, comforted and to come to know Jesus as their Messiah?
To read Rose-Marie Slosek’s reflections on our trip click here>> which includes time spent with Holocaust survivors.
Addendum: Wednesday October 7, 2026 Today we remember the horrific events three years ago when Hamas invaded Israel murdering, pillaging and taking people hostage. This prayer is adapted from Isaiah 61: 3-7
Lord please comfort all who mourn; grant to those who mourn in Zion a beautiful headdress instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the garment of praise instead of a spirit of heaviness; that they may be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that YOU O LORD may be glorified. Help them to build up the ruins; and to raise up the devastations; by your Spirit, may they repair their ruined cities and lives. May the Church rise up to bring them comfort and support. Restore Israel to her calling as your priests and ministers and to boast in YOUR glory! Instead of shame grant them a double portion; instead of dishonor may they rejoice that they are a people YOU have chosen to be a light to the nations. Fulfill your promise that in their land they shall possess a double portion; they shall have everlasting joy as they turn their hearts to their Messiah, Yeshua/Jesus.. Amen

Betsy Roy is the Director of Women of the Word, a Christian women’s conference ministry which also offers online christian bible studies and online bible reading plans. Betsy has been traveling to Israel on a regular basis since 2005. She leads prayer and ministry trips as well as tours there. She can be reached via the Women of the Word website.

















